Comments on: Damn Sperm Donor http://www.thezach.net/blog/damn-sperm-donor/ The Internet Home of Zach Lassiter Wed, 28 Jul 2010 03:59:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Theo http://www.thezach.net/blog/damn-sperm-donor/comment-page-1/#comment-1243 Theo Tue, 29 Dec 2009 01:12:33 +0000 http://www.thezach.net/?p=147#comment-1243 You know Kate loves you, as do I my friend. THese are the words and actions of her guardian. WHo is definately stepping outside her legal grounds. I believe you have more than enough ammo to start fighting this guardian. She is abusing her power. You know Kate loves you, as do I my friend. THese are the words and actions of her guardian. WHo is definately stepping outside her legal grounds. I believe you have more than enough ammo to start fighting this guardian. She is abusing her power.

]]> By: Timelord http://www.thezach.net/blog/damn-sperm-donor/comment-page-1/#comment-1242 Timelord Fri, 25 Dec 2009 21:20:51 +0000 http://www.thezach.net/?p=147#comment-1242 Make sure that this person knows that Kate is under a guardianship order and it might reveal who is really making the call at Kate's end. Who knows? They might just get involved on your side - even though it is agreed between both parties that adoption is the way to go. You're definitely in my thoughts, mate. Keep punching for what you believe in! Make sure that this person knows that Kate is under a guardianship order and it might reveal who is really making the call at Kate’s end. Who knows? They might just get involved on your side – even though it is agreed between both parties that adoption is the way to go.

You’re definitely in my thoughts, mate. Keep punching for what you believe in!

]]> By: A Regular Reader http://www.thezach.net/blog/damn-sperm-donor/comment-page-1/#comment-1239 A Regular Reader Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:08:14 +0000 http://www.thezach.net/?p=147#comment-1239 Katelyn has a guardian, so it's likely not her plan at all. Since she's under guardianship, her rights as an adult are non-existent. However, YOU have a right as the father of the child to get involved. Go to that meeting, and exercise that right! Perhaps, at the very least, you can arrange things so that you can be involved with your little girl's life. Don't give up hope. From what I've seen, you have a lot of people keeping you and your daughter in their thoughts and prayers. Katelyn has a guardian, so it’s likely not her plan at all. Since she’s under guardianship, her rights as an adult are non-existent.

However, YOU have a right as the father of the child to get involved. Go to that meeting, and exercise that right! Perhaps, at the very least, you can arrange things so that you can be involved with your little girl’s life.

Don’t give up hope. From what I’ve seen, you have a lot of people keeping you and your daughter in their thoughts and prayers.

]]> By: Gavin Bollard http://www.thezach.net/blog/damn-sperm-donor/comment-page-1/#comment-1238 Gavin Bollard Tue, 22 Dec 2009 06:06:20 +0000 http://www.thezach.net/?p=147#comment-1238 Hi Zach, It wasn't the news I was hoping for and I can understand that you're feeling a bit down about it all. At least part of the reason has to be the whole "united front" thing. You and Katelyn obviously need to sort things out between yourselves and you need to stop flip-flopping over depression issues. If you can get past that and present a united and stable front, then things will be much smoother. I'd suggest that the two of you request that you be kept in touch with your child. If you're nice about it - particularly BEFORE the adoption, then you've got a good chance of it happening. Zach, you have a child. Nobody can take that from you. If you know who your child's adoptive parents are, then once you get your life back on track, you can at least see your child grow up. Hang in there! Hi Zach,

It wasn’t the news I was hoping for and I can understand that you’re feeling a bit down about it all. At least part of the reason has to be the whole “united front” thing.

You and Katelyn obviously need to sort things out between yourselves and you need to stop flip-flopping over depression issues. If you can get past that and present a united and stable front, then things will be much smoother.

I’d suggest that the two of you request that you be kept in touch with your child. If you’re nice about it – particularly BEFORE the adoption, then you’ve got a good chance of it happening.

Zach, you have a child. Nobody can take that from you. If you know who your child’s adoptive parents are, then once you get your life back on track, you can at least see your child grow up.

Hang in there!

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