So today I got some information from the adoptive family that I really don’t know what to do with. The adoptive family claim it was not them that made a comment that made so angry. So I looked into it by looking at the IP logged by word press. The results seem to verify what they said. I’m pretty sure who made the comment and its not them.
I’m a bit upset. I frankly don’t know what to do. I’ve made an idiot of myself.
I will have to say its so upsetting to me that someone will take advantage of anyone when there down and just ‘kick them’ when they are at their weakest.
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On one hand, I’m VERY glad it wasn’t them who made the comment. I was hoping, actually, that it was some troublemaker posing, and not actually them, because if they posted something like that…well that would indicate things have gone way, way south (and you don’t need things to go any more south than they already have). But at the same time I had feared it was (it was their last line that made me think that — couldn’t see a poser saying that).
On the other hand, it is SO disappointing that someone would pose as the adoptive family to post such a hurtful comment. Not only did they contribute to your feeling so hopeless about the situation, but they made you even more mistrustful of Julia’s adoptive parents than you’d already become.
It was also an act against the adoptive family, in that something was posted and attributed to them that they presumably never would have posted.
Glad it wasn’t them, though sorry there’s a troll afoot.
Zach,
It was pretty obvious to me when I first saw that comment that it wouldn’t be the adoptive family. You seem to have some “enemies” on your blog who love stirring you up. The use of the “R” word in particular made it obvious, because everyone knows that you have an issue with it.
I figured that you’d guess it yourself but obviously I screwed up in not alerting you – sorry.
I think that you really need to calm down and stop assuming that the world is out to get you. It would be nice if you could issue an apology to those adoptive parents and assure them that it won’t happen again. They’re the last people who need to feel threatened by you.
Then, you probably need to start assuming that every bad or upsetting comment could have come from nasty person, rather than your intended sender.
It’s going to make your life a lot less stressful.